Kesempurnaan Wanita

Malam belum terlalu malam.. Dinginnya malam juga belum meneriakan bahwa sekarang sudah saatnya keriaan malam dimulai.. But oddly.. meja yang tadinya di-reserved utk 20 orang sudah mulai terasa sempit.. "geser donggg.." sudah terdengar dimana2.. dan akhirnya harus ada yg rela mengeluarkan sisi egois dan tebal muka dgn menarik kursi mana saja yang ada disekitar.. hummm... i like this place.. terlebih lagi... betapa banyak muka2 lama yang yah.. terkadang ada yg jauh berbeda.. tapi ada juga yang begitu2 saja... Yup.. it was a reunion..

Kepulan asap rokok mulai menghiasi suasana.. beberapa org juga mulai menuruti nafsunya untuk memesan makanan dan minuman.. lapar...? bisa jadi.. atau yah.. 'just sumthin to do while i'm gossiping'.. hehe..

One thing led to another... meja kami jadi ramai sekali... terlebih saat2 dimana para wanita yang sudah memiliki 'the best thing in their life' (kids..) mulai memamerkan foto2 bayinya.. "oooohhh... so cuteee..." terdengar dimana2... cliche..? dunno.. i don't judge..

There was this girl... she sat right next to me... showed me a picture of her daughter... SOOOO CUTE for real... and as a normal person.. i asked.. "so you're married.. where's ur husband..?" tau jawabannya..? "no i'm not married.. speechless..? PASTI.. but i tried to pulled myself together that time.. Yang membuat saya terhenyak dari kenyataan hidup yang saya jalani selama ini bukan karena pernyataan dari teman ini.. melainkan apa yg saya tau secara keseluruhan..

Sophie.. a woman who's been married for 2 years.. has 1 year old daughter.. has a successfull husband.. sounds great.. she takes care of everything (domestic stuff) by herself... though she's a housewife.. but i can say that she's a great housewife.. and when i asked "are you happy?".. the answer was "not really... but i'm good.."

Layla.. a widower with 6 years old son... love her son so much.. willing to do anything for her son.. She admit that raising her son by herself is the hardest thing to do... and at the end.. she said "He's the best thing in my life din.. and i will do anything for him... and i know that i can do anything for him.."

Rachel & Kyle.. these two women really are not married... dengan muka santai seperti bukan permasalahan berarti dlam hidup mereka menjawab "i'm not married.. he left me for another girl the minute he knew i'm pregnant.." But now..? mereka bisa berdiri di atas kaki mereka sendiri... fight for their kids...

All of them seemed so happy with their life.. a life that maybe not everyone wanna be in it... merka mengakui bahwa awalnya mereka sempat ragu dgn kehidupan.. but then again.. those kids turned into their vitamin...

As i layed down that night... i couldn't stop thinking about them... how missarable they were when it happened for the very first time... those disaster... and all i can see is how perfect they are...

Teori hidup saya selama ini yang menyatakan bahwa wanita adalah makhluk paling sempurna di dunia seperti terjawab.. we can be a child sumtimes... bermanja2 hanya untuk perhatian sekedarnya dari pasangan dan lingkungan... drama queen hanya karena ingin ada sedikit pelukan menenangkan.. meladeni, lembut, dsb yang sudah merupakan "cetakan" yang diberikan kepada selluruh wanita... But then... pada saat angin itu datang.. women might broke down for a while... cry like there's no tommorow.. but the after that.. women will stand up.. hold their heads up.. facing the world by herself.. and MAKE IT..!!!

They are such an inspiration for me.. me.. the drama queen in my little land.. have to hold my head up.. and facing the world... coz i'm a woman.. and i know i can make it...
Now i can see how incredible women are... women rock... and that's why we worth a lot...